Together let’s create the life of your wildest dreams.
Have you ever imaged…
- Having a purpose outside of being a kick-ass mother (find out what lights you up, leave a legacy that’s more than being a mom and give back in a massive way).
- Eradicating comparison hangover, no longer waste time comparing yourself to others as you courageously go after your dreams with clarity and vision.
- Being the best role model for your kids.
- Having other women envy your life because you’re confidently going after your dreams (instead of second-guessing your every move).
- Take back control of your life and start living your dream life.
- Saying no confidently and not feeling guilty for it.
If you’re saying to yourself right now, OMG I want to be this woman….
then you’re in the right place!
Do you want more? Do you want to live a life full of purpose and passion? Do you want to reclaim the women you left behind to have kids? Imagine a life where your time with your kids is scared, where you’re 100% present for them AND your life has purpose outside of motherhood.
You’re probably saying to yourself……Alesha, this all sounds great, but how?
Well I’m here to show you exactly how you can make all of that happen.
Here’s the thing, I get it. I’ve been where you are, and trust me, it’s no fun. But with the right support you can move through this and reclaim the life you once had.
I know right now you’re probably feeling exhausted, numb, depleted, directionless maybe even depressed. Perhaps you have lost your self/identity in the process of becoming a kick ass mom.
You have what I call MOTHER FUNK. Don’t worry I had it too and I’m going to show you exactly how to get out of it and create the fabulous, happy life you have dreamed of.
With my mentoring/coaching, we will completely transform your life as we uncover the woman that’s been hiding behind the piles of laundry, dirty diapers and hectic school schedules (she’s in there somewhere!).
Imagine in 6 weeks being able to WOW your husband and shock your friends, because:
- You’ve regained your confidence
- You’ve learned exactly how to balance being a mom, wife, and friend (it’s easier than you think)
- You’ve retrained your brain and are able to quickly recognize your limiting beliefs when they creep in and move in a new direction, easily, and effortlessly
- You’ve learned that being your best self envolves daily action in self-care
- You’ve learned to put yourself first (filling your cup will serve those around you so much more)
- You’ve reconnected with your husband and actually have the spark back again (because you’re uncovered your ‘old self’ and finally have “couple time”)
- You’ve found your voice to say no confidently and you stop taking on tasks that you really don’t want to do.
This isn’t fantasy. This is reality.
I know because I’ve been there and I’ve created this life for myself. I now live a more balanced life of being a dedicated and loving mom and wife but also of being a woman. I’ve discovered how to fulfill my personal needs as a smart, independent woman, without sacrificing the needs of my family.
The thing I’ve learned is, if you want to succeed, you CANNOT let the limiting beliefs, fear, and lack of confidence be the dictator of your life ANYMORE!
You have a decision to make….
You stay super comfortable exactly where you are OR you bravely move forward, gaining more confidence and start bringing your dreams into focus to create your dream life.
With my 6 week signature SHINE BRIGHT coaching program, you will get a personalized coaching experience, including:
- Six 45 minute sessions with me via Skype
- Support in-between sessions via Facebook messenger and/or email during business hours
- PDF worksheets
- Reading list (your choice if you start to read during your sessions or implement after)
- A welcome pack which includes client intake form, coaching agreement, and pre-session forms. This will put us both on the same page with what your goals are and your most pressing issues.
This is your time, these are your sessions. Before each session, you will receive a pre-session form to fill out and send back to me. This is your chance to pick a topic or mention anything that came up from your last session or from your homework week that needs to be dealt with. At the close of each session, we will create your homework for the week together, which I will hold you accountable to do.
Let’s Work Together
Why Invest in Me?
I’ve been where you are right now.
I understand the fear, overwhelm and pure confusion you’re feeling. You’re looking at your life and thinking there’s got to be a more. More than just getting by, losing sleep constantly worrying about everything. Your fear has a death grip on you. You keep asking yourself, there has to be a better way, a way that is rewarding in all areas of your life.
For me, I was the gal who wanted to please everybody. I always did what was expected of me. I towed the line and never stepped outside of it. I checked all the boxes I had been subconsciously telling myself.
- Find a good gov’t/union job…check
- Find a good guy…check
- Marry said guy…check
- Buy a house…check
- Have babies…check
After I had checked all the boxes I was looking around for my next box to check…only thing was I couldn’t find it. I remember asking myself, now what? Surely this wasn’t it. Living status quo for the next 20 years was soul crushing for me. Looking around I could see people were stuck, waiting out there time in jobs that didn’t light them up – they were coasting till retirement.
I was in complete overwhelm and felt alone. I WANTED MORE, more for myself, my kids and husband. What that was I was unsure of. I found myself career confused, lost, nervous and completely unsure of my next move.
I knew being a girl who never stepped out of line would need to make way for the girl who took the path that was new, scary and most definitely out of the box. I was following my instinct and ok where it might take me.
I knew things had to change. That meant changing the dialogue with myself and others. Learning all about my fear/ego and adapt new daily habits. I literally learned a new way of living. Living a certain way for 30+ years is not an easy thing to change BUT I did it…and so can YOU!
I kept my journey close to my heart not sharing it with many people, I felt like I was hiding away. The truth was, I was lost fumbling from one thing to another. No one to talk to or support me – it was hard.
I wanted so badly this “other” way of life but felt I wasn’t really getting anywhere. It had been almost 4 years and my wheels were still spinning. I was a mess, my vision for my life was so blurry. I was feeling sorry for myself and depressed. I was still where I was – NOWHERE!. I knew something had to change, if it didn’t I would let another year slip by.
The SHIFT happened when I found my own high-level success coach. EVERYTHING shifted the day I invested in MYSELF and her.
I realized that all the years of going at it alone had been exacerbated by the fact I was doing it alone. I didn’t have the support system in place to guide myself to find my own confidence and purpose in life. Coaching has completely changed my life.
I took massive action and that little voice within me – the voice that was yelling at me to find another way and I did. I started to create my OWN checkboxes outside of what “I thought” I was to be doing. I trusted the process, took a leap of faith and did the work.
And this is what I want for you my love.
I think back to the sleepless nights, loneliness, anxiety about money and depression and see how far I have come – it is possible to come out on the other side feeling confident and happier than ever before.
I am now living my life on my own terms and making my own dreams come true – one unique checkbox at a time.
And the thing is, all this is possible for you too! I am just a girl from Canada who listen to her heart and follow her dreams and I’m now living my dream life.
I know that if I am able to make it happen, then you can too!
it all starts with….You
I know how you’re feeling, my love. It’s like you know you want more but you’re unsure how to go about finding exactly what ‘more’ is… what does it look like to have it ALL? Is that possible for me? How can I be all of the things I want to (wife, mother, friend, sister) without being selfish? Isn’t it selfish to give myself the love and attention I really want (what will the neighbours say! gasp!!)
Been there! But let me share a secret – those are just your fears talking. That little voice inside your head is saying “slow down. Retreat. Come back to your comfort zone” and hey, that’s normal. But what I know for sure about creating an extraordinary life of happiness, abundance and joy is, you have to break through those fears and glass ceilings limiting yourself, to reach your full potential.
Are you ready to get back into the driver’s seat of your life again?
Are you ready to drop the comparison with other women and reclaim your confidence? If you want to live a life where you have the freedom to be a loving mom and wife, but also time for yourself, finding your inner peace and happiness again, without sacrificing a single aspect of your life, this is for you.
You can create a truly magnificent life of unlimited success by unleashing your true, authentic self and it’ doesn’t have to be hard or scary. It’s possible to be yourself and reach the level of success you’ve been craving.
I want to uplift you and help you let go of what is not serving you any longer so you can SOAR.
Here’s How It Works…
- Purchase your life-altering Shine Bright coaching package below.
- If you’re still wondering if this program is right for you, click on the link below and let’s hop on a complimentary call
- You’ll get immediate access to my Welcome Pack (to get you clear on your goals and what you want to accomplish over the next 6 weeks)
- We’ll schedule our 6 coaching sessions
- Each session I’ll coach you through the steps to get your life where you want it to be and hold you accountable to achieving the goals you set for your life.
Why invest in my program?
In a word – WORTHY. You’re worthy of living a fantastic life, of letting go of the guilt, and obligation we feel as women, mothers, and wives, and discover how to balance those incredible titles while honouring your true desires.
When my kids came along I was laser focused on them. Forget about me, I poured everything into them. That’s what mom’s are suppose to do…right? In doing so, I completely lost myself and any desires I once had. I felt alone which feed into my negative voice in my head. God forbid I telling anyone what I am feeling or thinking.
But one day something awakened in me and I sat up and paid attention to the burning desire I had inside to create a fun, joyous and incredible life. That’s when everything changed. I started believing in myself, chasing my dreams again, reading books, and investing in myself. From that moment on, everything shifted. Now my life looks completely different and I want to show you how you can create this too.
At first, I thought I’d be judged, and my kids would resent me, and think I was selfish, but what I’ve come to learn is I’m setting an example. My kids see me taking care of myself…mind, body and soul (living a fulfilling life beyond motherhood) and I’m giving them permission to live in the same way.
“I am a lighthouse, not a lifeboat. I do not rescue, but instead help others find their own way to shore, guiding them by my example”.
- Remove limiting beliefs, doubts and uncertainty.
- Increase your confidence.
- Reduce anxiety, stress, jealousy and comparison of others.
- Increase your happiness.
- Learn to say no without the guilt.
- Eradicate unfounded doubt and worry that keeps you awake at night.
- Increase your selfcare and learn to really take care of yourself so you can succeed in your life.
- Adopted a healthy balanced life and create a morning routine that will set you up for success all day.
- Develop techniques and tips that you can call upon throughout your day for continued support.
- See how negative thoughts have been holding you back.
- Discover a new dialogue that will pave your path to success.
- Find out what in your life has been making you feel less than, stuck or confused and how to move forward.
- Goal setting – learn how to do it where it doesn’t feel like this gigantic task that you will never accomplish
- Receive my inspirational and motivational techniques to keep you on task and moving forward in the direction of your dreams.
Manifesting and the Law of Attraction:
- No longer find yourself saying “I would love to but I can’t afford it”.
- Live the life you’ve always wanted: travelling shopping and dining on your own terms because you understand money and the law of attraction.
- Stop avoiding looking at your money and develop a healthy practice to manage your money like a boss lady
Payment plans available
Consider me your Shine Bright Journey bestie.
Our time together will be transformational. YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO DO THE WORK and in doing so you will experience shifts. Be ready for massive transformation.